You are probably wondering why after being together for so long is your boyfriend still saying that he is not ready to settle down with and get married to you.
Maybe he has told you that he is not where he wants to be in his career or that he wants to get his business off the ground first or that he has to get his finances in order.
Perhaps he may have even gone as far as to say that he doesn't see the point in getting married since it's only a piece of paper.
Or maybe he has quoted the statistic that half of all marriages end in divorce.
I could go on and on because a man who is not ready will give you a reason that sounds valid and reasonable enough to justify him not getting married to you right now.
Whatever reason he gives you although you know that the reason is true, it still sounds like an excuse, doesn't it?
I mean it is still an excuse as to why he cannot marry you right now, am I right?
So where does that leave you?
You have to make a decision:
Are you going to wait for him to get his business off the ground, get his career in order, make a million dollars of whatever his goal is, however long that takes?
To help you to answer this question, think about what it is that you really want and ask yourself if where you are at right now in your relationship is a happy place.
Are your dreams, needs and wants being fulfilled?
If the answer is no, then what are the options available to you to get what it is that you want.
In other words, what will help you to make the decision on whether or not you should stay with a man who is not yet ready to get married or is not quite sure he wants to get married to you is putting yourself first and knowing what makes you happy and content and not selling out on that.
You cannot go wrong in making a decision like this if you put your own happiness first!
Do you know why a man will say that he is not ready to get married to a woman that he is in love with?
Click here to watch the video that explains it all!
