How long have you two been together?
If it's been more than a year or two I really do think that you have every right, if you want to get married, to start wondering "will he ever marry me?"
There are two of you in this relationship and for it to work and work smoothly, each of you has to be getting what you want from the relationship.
Or maybe I should say that each of you has to be getting enough from the relationship to keep you happy, satisfied and wanting to be with the other.
If that is not the case then one or the other of you, will subconsciously start to reevaluate the part of the relationship that is not satisfactory to you in the hope of resolving the problem in some form or fashion.
That is the point that YOU are at, right?
If you have been paying attention to the clues that your boyfriend has been giving, you may be able to answer your own question.
Has he said:
1. He is not ready to get married
If so, then he has probably also told you why. He has probably given you a list a good reasons why he's not ready to marry you right now. You have to determine if those reasons are justifiable. If you believe they are justifiable, then how long are you prepared to wait until he is ready, IF he ever becomes ready...
2. He just thinks that marriage is a piece of paper and look at how many of his friends are doing just fine without getting married - then listen to him.
You pretty much have your answer right there. He doesn't sound like the type of man who is rushing to go down the aisle and certainly not with you. It's now up to you to decide whether or not you want to stay with him now that you know that.
3. He's afraid of getting divorced so he thinks it's better not to get married in the first place - again listen to him.
If this is a real fear, and it very well might be, then you are not going to change his mind on this one very soon are you, so once again, you are going to have to determine whether it will make you happy and content to stay in the relationship knowing that he may never change his mind.
Have you noticed that
4. He doesn't speak of the future using "we".
So if he says something like "whenever you get married" or "when you have kids" Notice he doesn't say "whenever we get married" or "when we get kids". This is another clue that he probably really has no intention of marrying you even after 2+ years of you two being together. It's time for you to re-evaluate your relationship with him, because you already have your answer.
5. If you have brought up the conservation about marriage, you notice that he is lukewarm about it and tries to change to subject or end the conversation as quickly as possible.
You may even notice that he pulls away and acts distant. That is another clue that he is not comfortable talking about that subject with you.
These are just five things that a man might say and do when he is not ready to get married or has no intention to. So to answer your question, "will he ever marry me", I think you already know the answer.
Click here to watch the video that explains how men just instantly know when they want to marry a woman or not. The problem is that they never tell you.
